Choosing a Wedding Officiant
Choosing an officiant is more critical than most people realize.
Many couples, especially those who do not have a regular place of worship, plan in advance for everything except for the wedding officiant.
Personal referrals are important, but you need to make sure the officiant meets your individual needs and requirements.
If at all possible, meet personally with the officiant to make sure you are comfortable in their presence. It helps to discuss in advance what you are looking for as a couple, so you are prepared to ask questions about everything that is important to you. Is he available for your wedding date and can you imagine him presiding over your special day? Do you like his voice and will it carry? What will he wear? Does he appear to be sensitive and flexible in relating to you? Do you sense he can collaborate with other wedding professionals to make your wedding reflect your values, beliefs and the meaningful aspects that are unique and special about your relationship?
Your ceremony is created with heart and soul by Rev. Kent Foster.
Sample Ceremony
Prelude
Processional
Wachet Auf (Sleeper’s Awake)…………………………….. Bach
Seating of Grandparents
Seating of Parents
Mother’s Lighting of the Candles
Wedding Party
Bride’s Processional
Canon in D…………………………………………………. Pachebel
Presentation of the Bride
Greeting
Reading by Reverend or Family Member
Exchange of Vows
Reading by Reverend or Family Member
Exchange of Rings
Lighting of Unity Candle
Declaration of Marriage
Presentation of Husband and Wife
Recessional
Te Duem………………………………………………………. Charpentie